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Alarm Feelings: Anger, Guilt, Shame and Shut Down

Alarm Feelings: Anger, Guilt, Shame and Shut Down
Media type:

Practice Exercise


Time Investment:

4 - 6 minutes


Date Published:

07/14/2022

Anger, guilt, shame, and shutdown are often based on reactivity and “should” thinking. They narrow and distort perceptions, which can bring more suffering. So instead, feel them without resistance, nor acting on them. Bring clarity by naming your observables and thoughts, plus your underlying vulnerable feelings, needs and self-responsibility. Then mourn what needs were, or are, unmet. Only then choose what actions to meet needs.

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