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NVC Resources on Love


What’s Love Got To Do With It? A Thousand Ways to Say, “I Love You”

What’s Love Got To Do With It? A Thousand Ways to Say, “I Love You”

What’s Love Got To Do With It? A Thousand Ways to Say, “I Love You”

with Dian Killian
Article • 6 - 9 minutes • 
Article
6 - 9 minutes
The impulse to say "I love you" is an opportunity to check-in both with our level of presence (eg. are we saying it by rote?) and also with what we really mean in that moment (eg. what are the needs and real purpose deep beneath the word "love"?). This can invite us to explore a deeper, more heartfelt way of communicating and being...
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Getting Our Need for Love Met

Getting Our Need for Love Met

Getting Our Need for Love Met

with Mary Mackenzie
Trainer Tip • 1 - 2 minutes • 
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
Trainer Tip: List specific things that would signify love to you. Based on who the other person is and who you are, how could your need for love be met? Being specific is important. General statements, such as “I just want you to love me” or “I would like you to be more attentive and listen to me more” won’t work. (S)he may already think (s)he is attentive. What would being attentive look like...
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NVC Life Hacks 17: How to say I love you

NVC Life Hacks 17: How to say I love you

NVC Life Hacks 17: How to say I love you

with Shantigarbha Warren
Video • 5 minutes • 
Video
5 minutes
Falling in love is quite an experience, especially when it comes to that moment of saying 'I love you'. So what happens once you're in a relationship but still need to express the way you feel? Sometimes people feel like just saying 'I love you' is too impersonal or unspecific. So in this Life Hack, we give you some tips on how Nonviolent Communication can help set the mood with your loved ones.
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Love in the Time of COVID-19

Love in the Time of COVID-19

Love in the Time of COVID-19

with Miki Kashtan
Article • 7 - 11 minutes • 
Article
7 - 11 minutes
Love keeps the thread of connection intact in times when all around us we see the human fabric becoming threadbare. When we dig deep with love into guessing what others care about that had given rise to their actions, it changes us. It brings us closer to understanding the incomprehensible -- and closer to vision, imagination, humility, curiosity, commonality, and loving action. Read on for...
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The Future of Love (6 Session Course)

The Future of Love (6 Session Course)

The Future of Love (6 Session Course)

with Kelly Bryson
Audio • 8 - 10 hours • 
Audio
8 - 10 hours
If you are tired of feeling dissatisfied, frustrated and hopeless about experiencing ease and joy in your intimate relationships, this course is for you! Please join CNVC Certified Trainer and long-time relationship expert, Kelly Bryson, in this course to rethink and relive your perception of love so you can actually feel love, let love in and be love.
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Pain Lasers and Love Lasers

Pain Lasers and Love Lasers

Pain Lasers and Love Lasers

with Bob Wentworth
Article • 5 - 7 minutes • 
Article
5 - 7 minutes
In lasers, light bounces between the mirrors, with each pass the light grows more intense. Our minds work similarly. Because of the "mirror" effect, where we can react to our reactions to our reactions to our reactions (and so on), changing our thought pattern even modestly at every level of reaction, can dramatically affect our ultimate experience. Usually the greatest amplifiers are the ones...
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Fearless Loving and Living (4 Session Course)

Fearless Loving and Living (4 Session Course)

Fearless Loving and Living (4 Session Course)

with Kelly Bryson
Audio • 6 - 8 hours • 
Audio
6 - 8 hours
Kelly Bryson, veteran and loved CNVC Certified Trainer, brings decades of experience to help you jumpstart your Mastery of Fear by using his unusual blend of experiential exercises, humor, empathy, original songs and stories, transformational truth telling, creativity and FRED (Frequency Resonation Energy Dynamics).
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Love Trumps Everything

Love Trumps Everything

Love Trumps Everything

with Mary Mackenzie
Trainer Tip • 1 - 2 minutes • 
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
Trainer Tip: When looking for a solution take the time to consider and connect to other's needs rather than just focusing on getting what you want. Such a basic shift in consciousness can make a profound difference in your relationships, both personal and professional. Notice how you feel afterward.
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Supporting Our Loved Ones In Living Authentically

Supporting Our Loved Ones In Living Authentically

Supporting Our Loved Ones In Living Authentically

with Mary Mackenzie
Trainer Tip • 1 - 2 minutes • 
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
Trainer Tip: Sometimes the people in our lives don’t yet have the skills to speak directly about what they want. When this happens we can make guesses about how they feel and what they want. This can lead to greater connection and chances we all can be more satisfied with our interactions.
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