Choice in the Face of Demands
Audio
1 hour, 8 minutes
03/11/2009
No one likes demands. Do you want to have access to choice when requests or demands come your way? Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she provides tools to free yourself from the submit/rebel dynamic.
Connecting To Your Needs in Relationships
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
11/07/2022
Trainer Tip: You may find yourself assessing the relationship with someone just based on how they feel. Check in with yourself: How do you feel and what needs of yours are met when you spend time with someone? Consider whether this relationship is working for you. If it isn’t, be specific about which of your needs are unmet. Notice if you can do anything to help meet them.
NVC Life Hacks 30: How to Stay Sane in the Climate and Ecological Emergency
NVC Life Hacks 30: How to Stay Sane in the Climate and Ecological Emergency
NVC Life Hacks 30: How to Stay Sane in the Climate and Ecological Emergency
Video
9 minutes
9/8/2022
With more and more news coverage on the increase in climate events around the world, climate change is slowly becoming accepted as an emergency. But how do we stay sane amongst all the chaos and to go one step further how can we take action whilst being grounded and calm?
Making A Connection In A Difficult Situation
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
05/14/2022
Trainer Tip: Whether there is the potential of physical or emotional violence, listening deeply to the underlying needs of the people in conflict can be swift, direct, and healing. Look for opportunities to defuse conflicts by reflecting the feelings and needs of the other person.
Finding Our Authentic Expression
Video
8 minutes
06/07/2011
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan offers 3 steps we can take to access and express our deepest authentic expression.
Maximizing Success With Your Sustainability Plan
Practice Exercise
1- 2 minutes
02/26/2022
Use this exercise to increase your likelihood of successful follow-through with your sustainability plan, by releasing fear energy and developing support structures that help you carry out your plan. Here you'll engage the goals that pertain to money, meaning and self care.
Intrinsic Need for Respect
Audio
13 minutes
08/2007
In this short but profound audio, Susan Skye unpacks the various ways one may view (and experience) the need for respect. By deepening your understanding of respect, you will enjoy greater choice and clarity in your own experience of respect and in making a request of others.
Improving Relationships as a Primary Goal
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
01/04/2005
Trainer Tip: We can improve our relationships by focusing our attention first on connection instead of other stragegies.
Using Integral Concepts to Improve Discernment
Video
24 minutes
05/2007
Wes Taylor, former CNVC Certified Trainer, uses Ken Wilber’s work to explain the developmental evolution of consciousness,. He then connects Wilber’s stage development concepts to the development of Nonviolent Communication.
Sitting With Not Knowing: Embracing the Heart of Nonviolent Communication
Sitting With Not Knowing: Embracing the Heart of Nonviolent Communication
Sitting With Not Knowing: Embracing the Heart of Nonviolent Communication
Article
3 - 5 minutes
7/2017
Sitting with not knowing is an NVC skill because its the opposite of reactivity. In our haste to find relief from the discomfort of not knowing, we often become defensive, jump to conclusions, and blame and criticize others. Sitting with not knowing requires us to suspend our distrust, tolerate fear and uncertainty - creating space within us. NVC provides a way forward to enter into a space of wonder, possibility, and creativity.